want
[wont, wawnt]
verb (used with object)
- to feel a need or a desire for; wish for
choose
[chooz]
verb
- decide on a course of action
It was downright delightful here in Denver over the weekend – which meant I spent as much time as possible soaking up the late October sunshine – and as little time as possible on housework and errands. The laundry room can wait.
The weather provided a perfect reason to not only set aside my to-do list, but to FINALLY finish the brilliant book, How Children Succeed by Paul Tough (highly recommend).
After reading the last word, I went back to a page I had dog-eared about what it takes to become a chess champion. Stay with me here – there’s a point.
“When it comes to ambition, it is crucial to distinguish between ‘wanting’ something and ‘choosing’ it. Decide that you want to become a world champion, and you will inevitably fail to put in the necessary hard work. You will not only not become world champion but also have the unpleasant experience of falling short of a desired goal, with all the attendant disappointment and regret.
If, however, you choose to become world champion, then you will reveal your choice through your behavior and your determination. Every action will say, ‘This is who I am.’”
Take a moment to ask yourself…
Do I want to lose weight – or am I choosing to lose weight?
Do I want to get fit – or am I choosing to get fit?
Do I want to live a meaningful life – or am I choosing to live a meaningful life?
Want or choose? Choose wisely.
XO ~Robyn
Robyn Spurr is a Certified Health Coach, Weight Loss Coach, Personal Trainer and founder of Chickadee Weight Loss. She helps women reach their healthy, natural weight and stay there without all the diet craziness.