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July 1, 2012 By Robyn

The Truth About Cravings

I woke up in my happy place this morning. The hubby and I have a little log cabin in Valdez, New Mexico – our sanctuary in middle of nowhere. It borders the Carson National Forest, has a TV with five channels and is nearly 3 hour from Albuquerque, the nearest city.

I wouldn’t have it any other way. It’s where we go to recharge our batteries, reconnect with nature and step away from the hustle and bustle of life in Denver.

Not only did I open my eyes to a spectacular sunrise over Taos Valley, but it was also a lazy Sunday, my favorite day of the week, and I had nothing planned until Brunch with friends at 11:30. PURE BLISS!

Once fully awake, I headed downstairs, made myself a cup of jasmine green tea, grabbed my beloved iPad and climbed back under the covers.

Since it was Sunday morning, I decided to read the “paper” (aka Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Google Reader, etc).

I stumbled upon a tweet leading to this excellent talk by Clay Johnson, author of The Information Diet.

The entire talk is about 20 minutes, but the first 3 minutes or so are what really caught my attention.

The bulk of the talk is about SEO responsibility and the case for conscious media consumption (fascinating stuff). However, the first few minutes focus on the rising obesity rates in the US over the past few decades.

Mr. Johnson says something that I’ve heard before, but he simplifies it beautifully.

“Human beings are wired for what WAS good for us, not what is good for us now.”

So what does he mean?

Salt, sugar and fat WERE good for us at one time. We yearn for salt because it’s an essential compound for our bodies to function. We long for sweetness because it means an instant boost and we crave fat because it’s an extremely dense source of dietary energy.

Our biological cravings once helped us survive the winter. With access to fresh meat, fish, nuts, fruits and veggies year round, we can survive the winter quite easily now.

Mr. Johnson continues to talk about how the big food companies are producing cheap, popular calories because they know it’s what we find naturally irresistible. And it’s true.

So what do we do? How do we override out own survival instincts?

1. I know just how delicious that Dove ice cream bar is. Companies spend millions making sure that we crave their product and that it has just the right combo of fat, sugar, salt and texture.

Don’t fall for the pretty packaging and bogus health claims (good source of calcium) and don’t buy the stuff in the first place. It’s easier to say no at the grocery store than resist it once it’s in your house.

2. Try new foods and start listening to your body. Eating real food most of the time absolutely DOES make you feel better. I spent 25 years eating crap and the last 13 consuming healthy, whole foods from the Earth.

What has changed?

I easily maintain a normal weight, my mood is better, I’m pain free, my energy is plentiful, I have excellent blood-work, I sleep well and I hardly ever catch a cold.

I’m sure I could list more, but those ought to convince you that the stuff from nature, not the factory is a better source of fuel. If you happen to give up pizza, beer and Doritos for grass-fed beef, almonds, broccoli and berries and DON’T feel better, you’re either a freak of nature or you’re lying to yourself. My guess is that it’s #2.

Still, not convinced. Give this a try.

Think about those well paid and savvy executives over at Cargill, Monsanto and Kraft, sitting around the table brainstorming how to further exploit your biological instinct in order to make oodles of moo-lah for their stockholders.

Thought that might fire you up.

So here we are, living in the land of infinite salt, sugar and fat, which happens to be horrible for us. Now what?

Start today by cleaning out the fridge and pantry. Get rid of the worst offenders. Ditch the Twinkie’s, gummy bears and Fritos. Search for anything with more than 10 ingredients or with names that don’t sound like food and toss them too – unless you can find me a Monosodium Glutamate tree or an Aspartame plant.

Now, head on over to the grocery store and replace the BBQ chips with a healthy new snack. Maybe a granny smith apple and some almond butter or fresh blackberries with real whipped cream, not the chemical concoction known as cool whip. Keep on making these small changes and over time you’ll stop craving the junk food and you’ll start feeling healthier and more vibrant.

Another option…

Wait 50,000 years until we evolve into beings who actually crave kale and cauliflower.

Good luck with that one.

Filed Under: Weight Loss Coaching

June 26, 2012 By Robyn

Choose Your Hard?

I recently stumbled upon this saying…

Losing weight is hard. Obesity is hard. Choose your hard.

Wow, talk about oversimplification.

Something about this message didn’t sit well, so I decided to dig a little deeper.

Let’s break it down.

Losing weight is hard.

I’m not going to lie, losing weight is no piece of cake. Over two-thirds of the adults in the United States are overweight or obese. A stunning figure. We all know how to lose weight – our energy intake (calories in) needs to be less than our energy expended (calories out). Simple.

Then why is it so difficult to lose the weight and keep it off?

One word Chickadees – change.

We continue to choose our old ways, even thought they cause us to suffer (in this case live in an overweight body), because they are safe, comfortable and familiar.

Let’s take a look at the next sentence.

Obesity is hard.

I was obese once and of all the words I could choose to describe being obese, hard doesn’t even make the top 10. Miserable, yes. Embarrassing, yes. Hard, not really.

If obesity were so hard, then why would we choose to remain in that state?

I think you already know the answer.

Staying fat doesn’t require us to change a single thing. We can eat the same food, live the same lifestyle and no one will notice.

Let’s move on to the final sentence.

Choose your hard.

I agree, there is a choice to be made and we can always choose to make things hard – or not.

I’ve lost the weight and kept it off and I’ve accompanied lots of other women on their personal weight loss journeys. I know what it takes to succeed.

We find our willingness to change when we have finally suffered enough.

Ask yourself this question. Am I sick and tired of suffering?

If the answer is yes, then you’re on your way. You have to want to lose the weight – for YOU.

Stop beating yourself up, acknowledge where you are right now and embrace it. Stopping the resistance opens the door and allows growth and change to enter.

Once you accept the circumstances and are willing to change from a place of love and acceptance, weight loss is no longer an insurmountable obstacle (aka hard).

Filed Under: Weight Loss Coaching

June 2, 2012 By Robyn

Wise Woman Warriors

A few weeks ago, I had an idea. I decided to launch a private Facebook group for clients and friends of Chickadee Weight Loss.

Why, you ask? Well, I currently belong to my own private Facebook forum made up of fellow weight loss coaches. Our little community is full of whip smart, passionate and supportive women and now that I’ve experienced the power of women supporting one another, I couldn’t possibly imagine my life without my “tribe”. I love them with all my heart and soul.

After years of working one on one with women you start noticing some trends.

Lots of my Chickadees tell me they wish they had more female companions who were authentic, supportive and honest. They often feel lonely and isolated. They struggle to make new friends.

Women ought to support other women. Why must we fight and scratch and kick at each other’s choices? Why can’t we, as fellow women, accept one another for who we are and start cheering each other on instead?

My bond with my Hellcat Ninja Coaching Sisters (yep, that’s what we call ourselves) prompted me to create a similar environment for my own clients, old and new.

During the first days of my new forum, my Chickadees came up with their own name. It just sort of happened. Like magic. Poof!

A few days ago, the Wise Woman Warriors were born.

So what’s the Wise Woman Warrior forum (geez, that’s a mouthful) all about?
It’s…
  • a place to ask questions about exercise, nutrition and all things healthy living
  • a community of women, all with the common goal of living a healthy and vibrant life
  • a positive place to turn if you need some advice or coaching
  • a self-hate free zone
  • a place where women can share with and support one another 
  • a place to openly celebrate our victories, no matter the scope or size

We’re only one week in and the forum is already buzzing with support and positivity. My hope is that everyone (we’re 28 wise women strong and growing) will jump in and use this space to inspire and be inspired.

Earlier today I asked myself the question, Who is a Wise Woman Warrior? What is she made of?

Well, that question inspired me to cook up a few pins for my new Wise Woman Warrior pinterest board (so addicted to that dang site).

If you’re ready to make peace with food and your body, strengthen your inner warrior and join a group of some of the most magnificent women around, just shoot me an email or give me a call. I’m currently taking new Phase One Weight Coaching clients and all new Chickadees are welcomed with open arms. There is an infinite supply of love in this world.

XOXO ~Robyn

 

Filed Under: Self Acceptance, Weight Loss Coaching

May 30, 2012 By Robyn

Cleaning Up My Act

I tell my clients to eat anything they want 10% of the time. It’s known as Joy Eating. It’s eating for taste, fun and pleasure.

Most diets “fail” because we give up. We get sick of feeling deprived. We’re hungry. We’re cranky. We want to go back to the way things were. Before there were rules.

Can you see the dilemma here?

We’ve convinced ourselves that the only way to lose weight is through starvation, deprivation and/or punishment. Is it any wonder we don’t stick to our diets?

We read diet book after diet book until we find a shiny new set of rules. We think, this is the diet that’s going to work!

That’s a lie. Stopping telling yourself lies.

It’s just the same old diet philosophy with a new name, wrapped up in a pretty new cover and sprinkled with fairy dust.

This cover above kills me. Only two steps to keep the weight off forever. Such brilliant marketing.

Losing weight shouldn’t feel like punishment – under any circumstances. But that’s exactly what we do to ourselves. Recall for a moment, the many conversations you’ve had with yourself leading up to and during a diet.

  • I’m disgusting, look at all this weight I’ve gained.
  • I’m just lazy.
  • How did this happen?
  • I let myself go.
  • What’s wrong with me?
  • I’ll never lose this weight.

What you’re really telling yourself is this – I’m bad and I deserve to be punished. Ouch!

My very first action with new clients is to help them clean up their thinking regarding the weight loss process. It’s the key to success. I’m not saying it’s easy, but it’s absolutely possible. Especially with the help of an awesome and supportive coach who’s been down that road. LOL!

When my own clothes start to feel a little snug and I know it’s time to drop a few pounds, I coach myself in the same way I coach my clients. I take the time necessary to clean up my thoughts until I’m excited to start my own weight loss journey.

How do I know I’m ready? My thinking looks something like this.
  • I’ve got this.
  • Bring it.
  • This will be fun. (yes, fun)
  • I wonder what will happen.
  • I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be right now.

I’m currently on this journey. The past 6 months have been a bit crazy ’round here. That’s life. We have ups and downs. I had foot surgery at the end of October and wasn’t released to full activity until mid-January. Once I was back on my feet, I had to get my personal training business up and running again. At the same time, I was whipping my body back into shape (holy muscle atrophy).

A month or so later, I immersed myself in one of the most intense coaching certification programs out there. It made college seem like a piece of cake.

After completing the program, I worked diligently to meet all of the requirements for full certification. Currently, I’m smack dab in the middle of reading, writing, marketing, revamping and creating in order to deliver the best weight loss coaching program known to man (or woman). I’m having a blast!

So what’s the deal with title of this post?

On Monday, I began a three week clean eating regimen. No sugar, no caffeine, no alcohol and no white flour.

SAY WHAT!?

Robyn, didn’t you just write all about the evils of deprivation diets?

Absolutely! But if you can embark on an eating adventure from a place of self-love and excitement, it’s all good.

Here’s the deal. I haven’t gained a bunch of weight, very little in fact. I’m not eating donuts and Doritos by the truck load. What I did notice, was that I was turning to my favorite joy foods more often. Coffee was replacing water, my chocolate consumption was on the rise and my old nemesis, Diet Coke found it’s way back into my life – like a toxic ex-boyfriend.

I decided to stop the train and get off before too much damage was done.

It’s currently day three of my “detox” and I feel great. Not a deprived bone in my body. There is chocolate AND Diet Coke in my house. The hubby loves the stuff. But he can drink a glass and he’s good. Not this chick. Once upon a time, I could stack cans of Diet Coke into a pyramid over the course of a day.

So, what’s the lesson here?

It’s all about your attitude. If you start off a weight loss journey kicking and screaming it will never work out long term. You will gain it back. I promise.

You’ve got to get your head straight first. Clear out the cobwebs, old programming and negative thinking. It’s why diets fail. Your mind is still all ugly and negative.

That’s why I love weight loss coaching. I help women change the old, worn out tape that’s been running in their minds along with providing the knowledge and tools to lose the weight and keep it off for good.

With a little practice, you too can get excited about three weeks without coffee or chocolate. Okay, LOTS of practice. For now, keep on eating those joy foods 10% of the time.

*I want to say thank you to the brilliant and beautiful women who embarked on the Weight Loss Coaching Certification journey with me. The bond we’ve formed is the greatest and most unexpected gift of this entire process. Women need the support of other women. I know this now. I was inspired to create a private forum for my clients as a result of my experience. A positive place to turn to if they need advice or a virtual “hug”. A place where women can share with and support one another. Stay tuned for a blog post on this topic. And big hugs to my fellow hellcat ninja sisters. I love you. XOXO

 

Filed Under: Weight Loss Coaching

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