Most of us think our weight is the main problem that needs to be solved. I wholeheartedly disagree. When our obsession with our weight is front and center, we’re unable to focus on any aspect of self-care that doesn’t involve shrinking our bodies. I’ll be kinder to myself once I lose weight. I’ll start walking (or go to a yoga class) once I lose weight. I’ll buy quality clothes that fit well once I lose weight. I’ll eat what truly feels good in my body once I lose weight. I’ll book that vacation once I lose weight. I’ll stop starving myself once I lose weight. Essentially, we’re neglecting our basic needs and desires until we feel we “deserve” it by losing weight. This is incredibly unhelpful. What leads to … [Read more...] about Once I Lose Weight
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The Unfillable Hole
In the minutes before yoga class a few weeks ago, I saw my friend Shana walk into the studio. Happy to see her, I jumped up and immediately heard a POP in my leg. Not good. But because I can be stubborn and willful, I decided to stay. It’s not that bad. You can make it through. Come on Robyn, you’re tough. You got this. As soon as I half attempted Warrior 2 pose, it became VERY clear I needed to go. Tail tucked between my legs, I grabbed my mat and hobbled out of class. Tim, my Godsend of a physical therapist, diagnosed the injury the next day (a strained gastrocnemius muscle) and set me up with a few weeks’ worth of PT appointments. It wasn’t as bad as I feared, but it would take some time to heal. With … [Read more...] about The Unfillable Hole
Punk Rock Eating
Why is the obesity epidemic continuing to spiral out of control? We know that being obese makes us more likely to have heart disease + high blood pressure + diabetes + sleep apnea. It raises our risk of stroke and some cancers. It puts constraints on our lives and what we’re able to do physically. Yet nothing has changed. Despite all we know and all the money we’ve spent, we are getting fatter and sicker as a society. I was listening to a podcast while hiking yesterday and something clicked. We don’t need more awareness or more programs or more funding. We need a new normal. The way of eating that contributes to the ever-evolving health crisis we’ve found ourselves in is NORMAL. As human beings, we want … [Read more...] about Punk Rock Eating
The Freeing Power of Personal Rules
Without reminders + gentle nudges + bumpers to keep us in our lane, we will inevitably default to autopilot mode. In other words, we will do what we’ve always done. Autopilot works brilliantly when we have zero interest in changing our actions - but when it comes to self-improvement, it’s kryptonite. If you're serious about getting better at something, you’ll need.. 1. Self-awareness2. Accountability tools3. Personal rules Yes --- rules. Guidelines. Instructions. Behaviors. Habits. Whatever you want to call them. The idea of setting rules to live by strikes fear in most people. We immediately recall all the times unfair or cruel rules were forced upon us - or the times we attempted to live under unbearable … [Read more...] about The Freeing Power of Personal Rules