Over the summer, I noticed that I was turning to food more often than usual. My scale noticed too. So I sat down with my Top 5 Values and BOOM! – it was abundantly clear that I was altogether neglecting my adventure value. My husband and I had been discussing the idea of visiting Scotland for about two years. But we came up with excuse after excuse for not booking the trip… We don’t want to leave the dog It’s too hard to step away from our businesses Flights are too expensive right now Maybe next spring – or in 2018 When we’re trying to lose weight, most of us rely on willpower to resist our desire for food – until we inevitably run out of willpower. But there’s an alternative approach to weight loss that happens to make life … [Read more...] about What’s Way Better Than Food?
Self Care
More Powerful Than a Food Journal?
What you pay attention to grows. ~Geneen Roth Tell me to what you pay attention and I will tell you who you are. ~Jose Ortega y Gassett What we think, we become. ~Buddha See a trend here? What do you give more attention to in your life? That big bowl of ice cream you “shouldn’t” have eaten + how much you hate your thighs --- or what you did well + like about yourself? Most of us are conditioned to focus on our perceived failures and disappointments. It’s human nature - our default setting. But our brain is plastic. We can create new pathways + habits + patterns. We can rewire our brain. We can create a NEW default mode. A mode that leads to more cheers + smiles + feelings of accomplishment. Every action we take either moves us closer … [Read more...] about More Powerful Than a Food Journal?
Letting Go of the All or Nothing Approach to Weight Loss
I’ve read at least three articles about abstaining from alcohol for the month of January (aka Dry January) – along with countless articles + blogs about detoxes, cleanses and of course – diets. And it’s only January 11th. Most of my life was spent either on a diet of off a diet. Either being good - or bad. Can you relate? Those were also the years when I was battling bulimia and hating my body - no matter what the scale said. We live in a society that is all about extremes… A month-long boot camp to punish ourselves for a sedentary December A juice fast to make up too many Christmas cookies Diet all week - binge all weekend Restriction tends to have a rebound effect. Whole 30 = ALL THE SUGAR when the 30 days is over Dry January = … [Read more...] about Letting Go of the All or Nothing Approach to Weight Loss
Change Your Facebook Feed, Love Your Body
In her best selling book, The Magic Art of Tidying Up, author Marie Kondo writes… The best way to choose what to keep and what to throw away is to take each item in one’s hand and ask: “Does this spark joy?” If it does, keep it. If not, dispose of it. Consider the amount of time you spend on social media (or watching TV). Are you “consuming” images + posts + shows + articles that spark joy and make you feel good about yourself and the world? A few months ago, I set out on an adventure – to create a Facebook feed that made me feel great about myself. And I succeeded. When we’re bombarded with size 4 bodies and photo-shopped images all day, every day - our brains recognize these images as “normal” and anything else as – not … [Read more...] about Change Your Facebook Feed, Love Your Body